The 28 year old Virgin
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Posted:Dec 23, 2007 7:03 pm
Last Updated:Sep 11, 2009 2:38 pm
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Ok, this is not directly Local Sexy Swingers related, but you may be interested. Recently after an Local Sexy Swingers friend stood me up I went out to the local bars. I am not trying to hit on anyone as I am kind of demoralised at this point. But apparently I was making quite an impression on a few ladies as I there were several that were flirting with me. (this is uncommon for me, and unheard of at this bar, one of the reasons I frequent it)
The girl that seems most interested disapears for a little bit and last call hits. So I head out to the parking lot perparing to grab a hotel for the night. (to avoid the hour drive home in the fog with a few drinks in my system. Just not a good idea)
Then she appears in the parking lot. Looks at me, and says come here. (like most men in this situation would, I folow her lead) We end up in her car and within 30 seconds she is all over me, we are kissing and heavy petting follows shortly after. She asked if I had a car and tells me to follow her back to her place. (So I did)
We get to her place and the heavy petting and kissing resumes. I begin scouting her out with my hands to discover where her spots are. In the process I found that she liked pain. Painplay is something that I happen to excell at so I and excited. And proceed to take things to the next level... (light hair pulling, scratching, nibbling... you get the point)
We move to the bed room and begin to remove eachothers cloths. I being to attack her body with my tounge and eventualy work my way to her clit. To which she responds quite favoribly to. Then I go to slip a finger in to find and play with her Gspot. Thats when I discover a wall... wtf? So I ask her and she reviels that this would be her first time.
Now we are both still tipsy so I ease of untill I know she is proceeding with a clear head. As this is definatly not something to be done drunk.
So the foreplay continues for about 2 hours at which point I make my move. I attempt and she pulls away with a wince. Ok patince is a strong suit of mine so we continue foreplay. I have the bright idea to give her a safe word, to stop me cold if she feels that I am going to far. She laughed but agreed. After several more unsuccessful attempts she says something that sets off all the alarms in my head.
"So are you board yet? All the others usually give up before now"
Right there I knew this was a major mind game. She had done this before!
Then she continued with the foreplay. Asking questions like "Do you want to hurt me" . Pulling my hair and trying to provoke me. It might have worked if I hadn't seen this for what it was. She wanted me to take her by force, and everything she was doing was in an attempt to make me lose control. Now in all honesty I had given her a safe word, so that this game would end if she said it. So I asked her if she remembered it, she said did not and didnt remember me saying anything like that... (With an evil grin)
Now there were 2 things that ran through my head. 1. I have left a lot of marks on this woman, nothing that wouldnt fade in 24 hours or be visible wearing clothes but still...
2. In this situation if she was crazy then it would be her word against mine.
2a. One of the reasons I like Local Sexy Swingers is I would have had some kind of trail to help my case.
Thus I am in a situation where I could win, but the risk of the flip side of the coin could land me in jail, or at least affect my life in a negitive way should there have been police intervention.
The sun is coming up at this point, so I leave.
And hopefully this story will end here.
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Some Guys in New Mexico have no class
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Posted:Dec 23, 2007 6:17 pm
Last Updated:Dec 23, 2007 6:18 pm
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My first post in this series is not current, it happend early December.
Background:
I my company sends me all over the place and I always scout ahead to seek out new friends. So knowing I had a trip to New Mexico coming up I began the search, and quickly found an interesting woman, and we started chatting. The chatting went on for the better part of 2 months as my trip kept getting delayed but then it finaly got the go ahead.
We plan to meet at a local bar. I knew from experience that it was a low key place that you could actualy hold a conversation, and it was one of the few places open late.
First Meet, no call no show. Any one who has been on Local Sexy Swingers for a while knows this one! Chatted the next day and it turns out her sitter stood her up.
So we made plans for the next night.
Second Meet, she showed! An hour and a half late (11:30pm) but I finaly got to meat this Beutiful woman. And she was the rare kind of woman that just ozzed sexuality. Thats where everything went horibly wrong.
As it turns out 2 weeks prior she had a drunken hookup with someone who was at the bar that night, and he was not about to let another man in on his action. One thing to note is that she is actual bashing him and publicly declaring how bad that night was. Thats when he walks up and asks who I am. She informs him that I am a friend from the internet and we are meeting for the first time in real life. He askes if it is a date, to which she responds no. I am not sure how he took that but from that point on about every 5-10 min we get inturupted by him trying to talk to her. She is constantly brushing him off and tossing signs to go away but he persists.
Seeing that he is able to talk to her in my peresence aparently encouraged the rest of the guys at the bar who started doing the same thing... (I have never felt so stepped on in my life.)
But we are making the most of our time and starting to get into eachother dispite the interuptions.
Thats when my new friend whom I had met earlyer that week taps me on the sholder and informs me that the guy is getting pissed, and getting his friends pissed too. At this point there is no chance of slipping out unnoticed and an attempt to do so would likely lead to a parking lot brawl. (I am starting to feel the frustration at this point)
Now the guy comes up and takes her aside and begins to tell her something quietly. He is joined buy a friend of hers whom she trusts and he begins telling her something as well. (I have no idea what is being said, and an important note at this point is that at no time that nite had i left her side)
Now this woman is the only woman in a bar with about 8 guys, all of which in various degrees of intoxication. Every guy is now hitting on her. (Including my friends that swear they were just making conversation)
The bar hits last call, I ask her if she would like to go somewhere and actualy talk. One suggestion was my hotel. The other was another bar. We agree on the public place. And wait for the others to leave. With must yelling they finaly do so. (I am on the edge of losing it at this point, frustration has really taken its toll)
We run our respective friends home and I go to the next bar. Suprise Suprise no call, no show.
Later chats with her revielded what the man had told her.
Aparently I had been talking about how I had met this slut that I was going to have my way with that night... This was also said by her firend.(Anyone who has met me feel free to come to my aid on this one, that is not who I am)
The earlyer note of importance was that I had never left her side.
But at 2 against 1 she felt they were more credible as I seemed to be too at ease with her. She pegged me as a player, and felt I would lie my ass off to get with her. (I am all about honesty and had demostrated it prior to meeting)
Later it was revieled that the guy followed her to her friends house. Had she of come to the second bar it would not have been a good thing.
I have since figured out several things that I could have done to avoid the outcome of that night.
The best idea was to have bounced to another place upon learning of the former hookup.
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The Best Laid Plans, Will Never Get You Laid the Way You Planned...
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Posted:Dec 23, 2007 5:37 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 3:25 am
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I started this blog not to record my successes or adventures into this life style, but rather my missadventures. I am doing this in the hopes that it will help others, or at times solicite advise in order to better myself. One things for sure, when things go wrong for me, they really go wrong and it can make for a good read.
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