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WTF???..........................................................
Posted:Nov 5, 2006 12:41 pm
Last Updated:Nov 15, 2006 7:35 pm
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Is Wrong with this site???? HUH?

I just got booted off...yes, thats right! My entire profile was just M.I.A right in the middle of typing something.

I call the site (through the 888 number),speak to customer service and he tells me that someone must've "pressed the abuse" button!

For fucking what????

I asked him if thats true, then how come every time I hit the "abuse button" to report abuse (ie: molesters and fucking animals,etc..) they NEVER get deleted or even acknowledged...and there's a ton of other members who hit that BUTTON too and still....Nadda!


His answer: Nothing but dead silence on the phone on his end....for a good 30 seconds! Duh!

WHY????????????????????
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Thank You!! xoxoxoxo
Posted:Nov 4, 2006 5:26 pm
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2006 5:18 am
5059 Views
Thanks For Always Being There!
The world is moving faster now;
We're on a changing course.
But you have helped me deal with life;
You've been a stable force.

When I have had to follow;
New directions, you were there.
When the world was hard on me;
You always seemed to care.

When nothing held together;
Made the slightest bit of sense.
You have always helped restore;
My inner confidence.

Everyone needs someone;
Who's reliable and true.
Through the moments I've endured;
I'm grateful there was all of you.

Thanks For Always Being There!


This is for every one of my commentors here!...Past and Present.

I've had hard days just like anyone else has although I may have not posted certain things but I do want you all to know how much your comments make me laugh, sometimes cry, lift me up when I'm down, and even piss me off sometimes!.....

Regardless....I Thank every one of you for "being there" in this 'community.' I have met so many great people since I started blogging in one way or another and I appreciate all the love thats sent through this crazy cyber world!


I just wanted to say "THANKS" and dedicate this special post for all of you!! So many of you have done so much for me and dont even know how much you all have done!

19 Comments
Now, this is just...different!
Posted:Nov 4, 2006 6:17 am
Last Updated:Nov 6, 2006 1:08 pm
4828 Views
> Sender: XXXXXXX XXXX XX
> To: steamyandsexybi
> Date: Nov 4, 2006 7:23 AM EST
>
> hi
> we are very interested in buying hot private movies from you.
> if you have something for us please send an email to "(their email was inserted here)"
> by
XXXXXXX XXXX XX

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

This is just what I read in my inbox (email on this site) from a couple in Austria. How strange! I NEVER ever said I ever had pics or movies for sale and this couple decided to send me an email expressing they'd like to buy some from me? LOL! THATS a new one! I've always heard of "bots" sending and trying to get people (mostly men) to join their sites and suck money from their wallets but...come on! This is just too funny!

Anyone else get a bizarre email like this?

By the way, the sender's handle has been "X'd" out for privacy and embarrassment reasons.

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Somewhere Out There
Posted:Nov 2, 2006 1:33 pm
Last Updated:Nov 7, 2006 6:35 pm
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Somewhere Out There
written by James Horner, Barry Mann, Cynthia Weil
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Somewhere out there beneath the pale moonlight
Someone's thinking of me and loving me tonight

Somewhere out there someone's saying a prayer
That we'll find one another in that big somewhere out there

And even though I know how very far apart we are
It helps to think we might be wishing on the same bright star

And when the night wind starts to sing a lonesome lullaby
It helps to think we're sleeping underneath the same big sky

Somewhere out there if love can see us through
Then we'll be together somewhere out there
Out where dreams come true

And even though I know how very far apart we are
It helps to think we might be wishing on the same bright star

And when the night wind starts to sing a lonesome lullaby
It helps to think we're sleeping underneath the same big sky

Somewhere out there if love can see us through
Then we'll be together somewhere out there
Out where dreams come true.......

13 Comments
Whats your Passion?
Posted:Nov 2, 2006 10:21 am
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2006 6:37 pm
4656 Views
Have you ever done something mortifying in front of a crush?

Guys: Have you ever scratched down there when you thought no one was looking?

Have you ever regretted a hookup?

What first attracts you to a man/woman?

Have you ever sent a naughty text message that backfired?

Have you ever tripped in front of a guy/girl?

Have you ever gotten it on in a dressing room?

Have you ever hooked up with someone in a bar or club the same night?


LADIES! What would you change about your man's bed behavior?

GUYS! What would you change about your ladies' bed behavior?

Have you ever had phone sex with your boyfriend/girlfriend, or a stranger?

What gets you in the mood?

Is sex better with the lights on or off?

Do you believe there is one soul mate for everyone?

How long did it take you to fall in love with your most recent boyfriend/girlfriend?

What do you think is more important for keeping love alive long-term?


Have you ever mooned someone?

How long did it take you to get over your last ex?

Does it bother you if your guy remains friends with his ex?

Would you be unfaithful if you knew your guy/girl would never find out?

Commitment:
When do you have the commitment talk?


Would you let your boyfriend/girlfriend take naked pictures of you?

Have you ever rented an X-rated movie?
What did you like about it?

What do you do if you discover your guy's or girl's porn stash?

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~~Christmas Memories~~
Posted:Oct 30, 2006 8:05 am
Last Updated:Nov 6, 2006 12:01 pm
4473 Views
Whats your favorite Christmas song and what kind of memories does the song bring back?
When you were a , did you ever write a letter to Santa?
What did you ask for? Was the letter short, long, or in between? I'd like to hear about it!!!

Whats your favorite Christmas movie?

What do you remember most about "The night before Christmas" as a ?

Do you bake lots of Christmas cookies?
Whats your favorite?


Do you have Christmas traditions in your family?

Whats the funniest thing you've heard a say and/or ask for at Christmas?

The BIG Question:
Who will you be kissing underneath the mistletoe this year?

Come on! Lets get in the spirit! Its less than 2 months away!.........and then.........

The New Year!!
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How much Lust do you have?
Posted:Oct 30, 2006 6:56 am
Last Updated:Nov 4, 2006 3:52 am
4612 Views
1. Is it very difficult for you to be monogamous? If yes, why? If no. why?

2. Do you find people of both genders attractive? What attracts you the most to them,physically?

3. If a first date is going well for you, would it end up in the bedroom? How would you want/expect it to happen?

4. Have the people you've dated have been very physically attractive? Whats your style?

5. You're very open sexually. You're up for anything, as long as it's legal. Whats the first thought that comes to mind?

6. If your partner suggested bringing a third person in to your bedroom, would/could you be all for it?

7. If you were dating someone and the physical chemistry or attraction faded, would you move on? How would you break it to them that its just not working out?

8. Lets say that you love to wear clothes that show off your body, even if some people may find them inappropriate....would you care? Why? or Why not?

9. If you're really into public displays of affection, would you care if it makes others uncomfortable? (if not being present). Adult speaking, how far would you let it go?

10. Online,You flirt with anyone you find attractive.....do you feel it's harmless fun?

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This is Insane!
Posted:Oct 29, 2006 3:53 pm
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2006 3:29 am
4246 Views
20 Ways To Maintain A Healthy Level Of Insanity.
1. At Lunch Time, Sit In Your Parked Car With Sunglasses on and point a Hair Dryer at Passing Cars. See If They Slow Down.
2. Page Yourself Over The Intercom. Don't Disguise Your Voice.
3. Every Time Someone Asks You To Do Something, Ask If
They Want Fries with That..
4. Put Your Garbage Can On Your Desk And Label It"In."
5. Put Decaf In The Coffee Maker For 3 Weeks. Once
Everyone has Gotten Over Their Caffeine Addiction,Switch To Espresso.
6. In The Memo Field Of All Your Checks, Write "For Smuggling Diamonds"
7. Finish All Your sentences with "In Accordance With The Prophecy."
8. Don't use any punctuation.
9. As Often As Possible, Skip Rather Than Walk.
10. Order a diet water whenever you go out to eat with a serious face.
11. Specify That Your Drive-through Order Is "To Go."
12. Sing Along At The Opera.
13. Go To A Poetry Recital And Ask Why The Poems Don't Rhyme
14. Put Mosquito Netting Around Your Work Area And Play tropical Sounds All Day.
15. Five Days In Advance, Tell Your Friends You Can't Attend Their Party Because You're Not In The Mood.
16. Have Your Co-workers Address You By Your Wrestling
Name, "Rock Bottom."
17. When The Money Comes Out The ATM, Scream "I Won! I Won!"
18. When Leaving The Zoo, Start Running Towards The
Parking lot, Yelling "Run For Your Lives, They're Loose!!"
19. Tell Your Over Dinner. "Due To The Economy, We Are Going To Have To Let One Of You Go." > >
20. And The Final Way To Keep A Healthy Level Of Insanity.......
We do not stop playing because we grow old; We grow old
because we stop playing.

Never be the first to grow old!!!!

6 Comments
Do dirty minds think alike?
Posted:Oct 29, 2006 2:47 pm
Last Updated:Oct 30, 2006 6:50 pm
4108 Views
1. When I go in I might cause pain. I cause you to spit and ask you not to swallow. I can fill your hole. What am I?

2. A finger goes in me. You fiddle with me when you’re bored. The best man always has me first. What am I?

3. I’m spread before I’m eaten. Your tongue gets me off. People sometimes like to lick my nuts. What am I?

4. I go in hard. I come out soft. You blow me hard. What am I?

5. All day long it’s in and out. I discharge loads from my shaft. Both men and women go down on me. What am I?

6. I come in many sizes. When I’m not well, I drip. When You blow me you feel good. What am I?

7. If I miss, I hit your bush. It’s my job to stuff your box. When I come, it’s news. What am I?

8. I offer protection. I get the finger ten times. You use your fingers to get me off. What am I?

9. I assist an erection. Sometimes big balls hang from me. I’m called a big swinger. What am I?

10. I’m at least 6 inches long. I use foamy lubrication when engaged in my job. What am I?


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Answers:

1. a dentist
2. a wedding ring
3. peanut butter
4. chewing gum
5. an elevator
6. a nose
7. a newspaper boy
8. a glove
9. a crane
10. a toothbrush, of course!

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Lonely~
Posted:Oct 28, 2006 7:36 pm
Last Updated:Oct 31, 2006 2:56 am
3815 Views
You're now entering the place,
where you sit or stand alone,
and loneliness you embrace.
The pain in your heart approaches,
your mouth gets dry,
all you feel like doing,
is sitting down to cry.
it feels like emptiness for miles,
here there are no smiles,
all you have is yourself,
and your broken heart.
The loneliness grows,
and that horrible feeling starts,
you hear nothing only groans.
The only people you see,
don't even care about you,
they only live to survive.
Every time they talk,
everything takes a dive.
So you just stand there,
wishing that someone cared,
but all they do,
is laugh and stare.
Cold people see you from a distance,
they don't want to be near you,
they don't even want to hear you.
Their insensitivity,
is uncalled for and unfair,
they leave you alone and in despair.
All you do is sit there alone,
you wish they would approach you,
but oh well.
You need a good friend,
and you feel that if you don't find one,
your sad world might soon end.

5 Comments
Setting Ground Rules
Posted:Oct 28, 2006 8:37 am
Last Updated:Oct 29, 2006 9:27 am
3825 Views
I found this in an online article and found this very interesting......

Setting Ground Rules for Fantasy Sexual Role Play

Fantasy sexual role play can be very exposing, which makes it both hot and a little scary. Laying down ground rules is essential to creating a space that will feel safe.

Some of these rules follow common sense and
common courtesy, others will be unique to you and your partner(s). Here are some basic rules that everyone should be willing to adhere to:

No laughing at your partner for something they say or do.
Avoid judgment. There is nothing wrong with having preferences, and you’ll never be okay with everything someone wants to do, but everyone should learn to say no without putting someone down.
Anyone can stop a scene at any time. Fantasy sexual role play can be intense, and it can bring up feelings that may be surprising. It’s important to remember that it’s a game, and the point is to have fun, and if either person isn’t feeling okay at any point they need to be able to stop everything and have their needs attended to.


Now for the questions:

What kind of sex do you want to have? Are there some things you don’t want to do in a role play, or other things you would only want to do when dressed up as someone else?

How can you let your partner know if things aren’t going okay or if you need to take a break. Work out a sign or word that you can use to check in with each other.

How far are you willing to take the role play? Are you comfortable letting it flow without a set ending, or do you want to agree beforehand on how the scene will finish up?

If you’re feeling nervous or awkward with the idea of fantasy role play, but you’d like to try it, what do you need to feel more comfortable? Can you ask your partner for what you need?

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Gloves or Underwear?
Posted:Oct 25, 2006 4:22 pm
Last Updated:Jan 11, 2007 12:45 pm
4198 Views
A young man wanted to purchase a gift for his new sweetheart's birthday, and as they had not been dating very long, after careful consideration he decided a pair of gloves would strike just the right note: romantic, but not too personal. Accompanied by his sweetheart's younger sister, he went to Nordstrom's and bought a pair of white gloves. The sister purchased a pair of panties for herself. During the wrapping the clerk mixed up the items and the sister got the gloves and the sweetheart got the panties. Without checking the contents, the young man sealed the package and sent it to his sweetheart along with this note:

My Dearest,

I chose these because I noticed that you are not in the habit of wearing any when we go out in the evening. If it had not been for your sister I would have chosen the long ones with the buttons, but she wears the short ones that are easier to remove.

These are a delicate shade, but the lady I bought them from showed me the pair she had been wearing for the past three weeks and they were hardly soiled. I had her try yours on for me and she looked really smart.

I wish I was there to put them on for you the first time, as no doubt other hands will come in contact with them before I have a chance to see you again.

When you take them off, remember to blow in them before putting them away as they will naturally be a little damp from wearing. Just think how many times I will kiss them during the coming year. I hope you will wear them for me on Friday night.

All my love, Roger

P.S. The latest style is to wear them folded down with a little fur showing.

18 Comments
If I can Turn Back Time...
Posted:Oct 25, 2006 7:10 am
Last Updated:Oct 29, 2006 1:27 pm
4118 Views
If you could roll back ONE HOUR from your life, which hour would it be?

And Why?
Please explain........

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